Cute Matt Bomer gets grilled by Details (January/February 2010). His answers are pretty dispiriting. Asked if it bothers him that it's speculated he's gay: 

"I don't care about that at all. I'm completely happy and fulfilled in my personal life."

Fair enough, but when pushed about not wanting to talk about it:

"I have a network and a show riding on my shoulders. I would say a big difference between my character and me is that i can be too trusting. And I've realized in this business, that's not necessarily the smartest thing to be. I definitely have a thing or two to learn from the con artists."

So he aspires to be more like a con artist regarding how out he is. Great!