AfterElton is asking readers to pick the 10 best gay movies (by your definition) and 5 best gay documentaries. I couldn't resist and typed out all my nominees immediately without thinking. Parting Glances should top every gay-movie list, IMHO. I liked most of Dennis Ayers's picks, except for Jeffrey—but everyone's list will have at least a couple that others will roll their eyes at.
For docs, it's Paris Is Burning—hands down, hands up and hands framing the face.
Go vote, and if you're a fan of the film version of Boy Culture, let 'er rip. Boy Culture was recently voted among the 30 best films from the 30 years of Outfest. I'll link that once it goes up online.